It’s hard for us to educate of Nefertiti growing . While our energy should also be used to tidy the house and all our work, Nefertiti “ask” our attention. While we still have enough energy, we still can “serve” liveliness Nefertiti well. But not infrequently we like have run out of energy while Nefertiti still saving her inner energy.
A few months ago, we were often scolded her as if she is grown-up children. Children should already know where the behavior is good and what bad behavior. At that time we seemed to ask for more on Nefertiti. Too often these days is filled by our anger. Nefertiti is still alien to her world, engrossed in exploration of new objects, while we are always anxious can only say “no” and scolded her back while Nefertiti remains our wish to violate the ban.
As a result, from our anger, Nefertiti became grumpy person anyway. The more we are angry, more Nefertiti got angry too, becomes totally unmanageable. Our consciousness again when Nefertiti experiencing “peak stress” in which she was crying uncontrollably and difficult to be appeased.
From the suggestions of our neighbors, we apply no matter softer, more curb our anger to her. And it was no use scolding as well as small children Nefertiti. It’s “duty” little girl is making a house a mess, toys everywhere, the floor is always dirty 
From that day, we further emphasize the use and positive attitudes. Words of praise when Nefertiti was doing well, big hug when she does what we ask, kiss affection for her commendable actions. And all it’s better than the days are filled with anger.
Getting scolded worse. The more loved, Nefertiti was showing her affection to us. However, not a baby if some things are difficult to “set” due to a very great curiosity.
Some things that I can be of child growth references:
- Do not say / label a child as “naughty” but blame the type of actions. Spilling food or drinks on purpose does not mean the child is naughty, but is responsible for the child by letting her take the mop / wipes and give the sense that it’s spilling drinks is not good.
- Give praise for any good deeds.
- Use the words of affection and show that we really love him with hugs and kisses for every good deed.
